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Whenever someone does a good deed and his mind is full of merit as the result of his good- ness, and he transfers some part of his merit to another person, or to his deceased relatives, these are all counted as ways of generating merit through the transfer of merit. 5. Rejoicing in the Merit of others: Merit generated through rejoicing in the merit of others Ipattanumodanamaya]. This sort of merit is ac- crued by those who, whenever they see that someone else has done a good deed, is pleased for them and rejoices with them in the merit that they have made. Even if they are unable to con- tribute anything more to that person's merit making, by rejoicing with them or congratulat- ing them on doing their good deed, they will earn a part of the merit for themselves too. It is in this connection that you often hear the word 'Sadhu!' in Buddhist circles. 6. Keeping the Precepts: Merit generated through keeping the Precepts [sita]. Keeping the Precepts ensures that we never take advantage of others through our physical or verbal actions — and at the same time we bring no harm to ourselves. You might wonder how keeping the Precepts can possibly give rise to merit. When we abandon all thoughts of taking advantage of others, in their place arises the radiance of merit that has accrued in the mind. This will have the effect of quenching heart-felt troubles. 7. Meditation: This means merit generated through meditation I bhauanamayalMeditation is a way of training the mind to become wiser. There are many different subdivisions to what can be con- sidered as mind training and these include read- ing books on Dhamma, chanting and meditation itself. Meditation has the effect on the mind of causing the arising of radiance and distancing the mind from disturbance by anxiety, limiting its habitual wandering, bringing peace. When- ever the covering of defilements is banished from the mind, especially the defilement of ignorance which usually imprisons the mind in darkness and undermines its true potential, wisdom will arise in the mind as the brightness of merit. 8. Listening to Dhamma Sermons: This means merit generated through listening to Dhamma sermons [dhammassavanamaya]. Listening to Dhamma lectures or sermons on the Dhamma will enhance our wisdom. Before, we might have had only a rudimentary understanding of the real nature of the world, but now as a result of hearing Dhamma Teachings, we know how to tell the difference between good and evil. Such an improvement in the level of our wisdom will result in our accruing merit for ourselves. 9. Giving a discourse on the Dhamma: This means merit generated through giving a Discourse on the Dhamma [dhammadesanamaya] Teaching the Dhamma by giving a sermon will bring merit to the preacher in the following ways: 1. Preaching will rid the mind of reluctance to teach others. Some people are reluctant to share their wealth with others. Others are reluctant to share their knowledge with others. Giving a sermon, instructing others about to lead their lives virtuously, will help to uproot the trait of keeping valuable knowledge to oneself. 2. Preaching helps you to revise the different groups of dhannnas. As you preach, you are able to revise the different groups of dhammas, in- creasing your mastery of them. As you recol- lect those dhammas, you will be inspired by them and this will bring radiance to the mind. Mastery also comes through the necessity to revise from the Dhamma texts, sometimes two to three weeks in advance of actually giving the sermon, in order to obtain a profound understanding of the Dhamma topic in hand before having to teach it to others. 10. Straightening One's Views: This means merit generated through Straightening out one's views: Iditthujukammamayal As the result of listening to a good sermon, the listener will have the discretion to tell good from evil, right from wrong. They will no longer doubt that doing good deeds gives good results or that doing evil will bring bad results. Before long the mind is steadfast in the pursuit of good deeds and in the avoidance of evil. This process is what we mean Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 81 EFTA01129183
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by correcting our understanding of the world. Once our understanding is proper, then the deeds of mind, speech and body will be good and proper too. The determination will arise in the mind that you will pursue good deeds for evermore—no longer being sidetracked into evil or unproductive ways. Thus if you it hard to remember all ten categories of meritorious deeds, you can summarize them down to three major categories: generosity, keep- ing the Precepts and meditation. D. NUM-LIONS OF MERIT Dl. Level of mind The first benefits that merit will bring when it arises are benefits at the level of the mind. This is one of the most important benefits because there is no need for one to wait for the after-life in order to see the results. Whenever we perform a good or meritori- ous deed, merit will arise immediately. If you do a good deed at night, merit will arise at night. If you do a good deed by day, merit will arise by day. If you do a good deed on an aircraft in mid-air, then the merit will arise in our mind there in mid-air. Wherever you are, if you perform a meritorious deed, the effect will arise in the mind instantane- ously — it doesn't need much expenditure of en- ergy for such merit to arise — even just thinking to do a meritorious deed will cause merit to arise and will put the mind at ease. There is no need to wait a long time in order to see the results at the level of the mind of your meritorious deeds. You don't even need to wait for someone to admire you for doing such a good deed. The results of merit will arise automatically in the mind without you having to do anything more than good deeds — and the ben- efits that arise are as follows: 1. Merit cleanses the mind: When the mind is clean it is ready to pursue even greater degrees of good deeds. In the days before we started accruing merit, we considered that our mind was already pure. However, as soon as we start doing meri- torious deeds, we realize that our mind has be- come purer than we ever expected. Before our mind was as bright as the morning star — but 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. now our mind is even brighter, with the radi- ance of the full moon. No matter how clouded and dull the mind might be beforehand, when merit arises in the mind will clarify the mind just like soap or detergent cleans the dirt out of a cloth leaving it pristine and white. Merit raises the quality of the mind: Merit that arises in the mind helps to filter out defilements which might otherwise operate in the mind. Merit will neutralize such negativity in the mind, not allowing them to affect the spaciousness and lightness or to slow down the operation of the mind —and having filtered the mind in this way, the mind is left ready to serve us in all types of task. The meritorious deeds we do therefore upgrade the quality of our minds. Merit brings us happiness: When the mind is purified and filtered by the arising of merit, it gives rise to radiance and refreshedness of mind which is the precursor of happiness. Such hap- piness is not fleeting, superficial happiness. It is an overflowing of happiness like on the days we make an offering or a donation at the temple and we feel refreshed by the goodness of our action, as if our heart was so big that it filled the whole of our being. Merit will make the mind more stable: Merit will make our mind more stable in the face of the worldly vicissitudes such as being praised or insulted. Merit will make the mind more flexible: The mind will have increased potential for success with the task in hand, whether the task be large or small, gross or refined — whatever the na- ture of the task, the mind made flexible will be ready for all eventualities. Merit will make the mind more radiant: It will increase the potential of the mind to gain insight to overcome all manner of obstacles that arise in the course of performing any task. Merit will increase the potential of the mind: You will begin to notice the difference whenever you apply your mind to any task. You might over- come the tendency to lose your temper easily. The mind that is free from anxiety and 82 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129184
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cloudedness, that is spacious and pure and stead- fast will be the mind of the highest potential. 8. Merit will allow better decisions to be taken: Decisions can be made quickly and accurately without hesitation. 9. Merit will allow a more insightful analysis of any situation:Thoughts will be 'on the ball' and a correct analysis of the situation every time.The mind dwells only on subjects that are skilful. You find yourself unable to think over anything po- tentially damaging to your high state of mind. 10.Merit will make your thinking thorough and comprehensive: You will not allow your thought to be dragged down into shoddiness. 11. Merit will help to make your thought both no- ble and deep: Merit will incline your mind to- wards the higher things of life and away from the baser side of life. All of these features illustrate the general benefi- cial effects of merit at the level of the mind. They are effects that take place equally no matter which of the ten ways you use to generate merit. How- ever, the benefits of merit go further than this. They are more than just a feeling in the heart — leading to rebirth in more fortunate realms live to come. D2. Level of Personality This level of the effects of merit is easier to observe than the effects on the mind. As we accrue more and more merit, the general benefits, no matter which way in which we accumulate merit, will spread to the level of our personality and will gradu- ally change it for the better. The changes in our char- acter originate from the changes mentioned above in the quality of the mind. 1. Merit will bring you physical grace: from your complexion to your voice and even your physi- cal proportions — all are attractive and appro- priate to the task of pursuing perfection. 2. Merit will bring knowledge, wisdom and mas- tery: because the illumination whch merit brings will awaken us to the nature of the world as it really is. Anyone who has set their heart on be- ing smart should start by cultivating merit. 3. Merit will help to upgrade our tastes and values: As the mind dwells on matters that are only vir- tuous and leaves aside evil thought, thinking things through thoroughly and in depth, our tastes and values will change in favour of virtue and morality. 4. Merit will develop our character and personality: These changes of attitude and and discretion will express themselves in changes of character and personality. 5. Merit causes our speech to become skilful: skil- ful thought becomes habitual and this causes our speech to be skilful too. 6. Merit causes our behaviour to improve: Good speech has its effect on our physical actions and we find that our behaviour gradually changes for the better. The way that we express ourselves, our deportment when in company, no matter where we mix socially, will be impeccable instead of being vulnerable to all forms of temptation. 7. Merit strengthens our patience: We no longer drool over others' possessions. In the olden days, others might have been suspicious even at the sight of us, worrying about when we were go- ing to rob them of their beloved possessions — but now that there is no more drooling, they can enjoy their wealth in peace. 8. Merit causes us to have more control over our temper: You certainly wouldn't let yourself be drawn into a conflict any more. This is another way in which one's personality changes as the result of upgrading the quality and potential of the mind. 9. Merit improves our personal appearance: Per- sonality includes your personal appearance. Merit accrued will cause our complexion to be soft and radiant—so much more refreshing than before when you weren't interested in merit. 10.Merit will reduce our anxieties: All your mis- givings and bones you had to pick with others, which before used to keep you awake at night, will now be forgiven. D3. Level of Lifestyle Merit will take its effect on our mind and our per immediately whenever we perform a meri- torious deed. At the third level, that of the lifestyle, Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 83 EFTA01129185
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however, we cannot be sure how quickly the ben- efits will be manifested because our quality of life- time arises as the result of both present and past deeds. The effects of good and bad deeds are mixed together inseparably. When there are so many con- tributing factors, it becomes very complex to deter- mine the exact source of the merit that has given particular benefit in a particular lifetime. It is just the same as looking at a particular cell in our body and not knowing which item of food we ate has nourished that cell. This is part of the reason why we are often hesitant to believe that doing good deeds brings good results or that doing bad deeds brings bad results. Some of the general results of our merit are as follows: 1. Merit will attract success:We will be successful whatever we turn our hand to. 2. Merit will bring us praise: You will be praised (at least by the wise); 3. Merit is like a protective armour: which protects us from dangers and misfortunes like a guard- ian angel. 4. Merit can lead us to attainment allow you to make continuous progress in your meditation. 5. Merit brings us the things that we wish for: Merit acts like a wish-fulfilling gem. Another thing which makes the results of merit dif- ficult to understand at the level of the personality is that apart from the general benefits, there are also differences in the way the outcome of merit mani- fests itself, rather like different 'flavours' associated with the ways by which merit has been perforrned. D.3.1 Examples of Merit Outcomes D.3.1.1 Generosity and Kalyanamittata The benefits that merit brings to different people differs according to the differences the merits they have performed. To take a good example — that of generosity, the likely results of the merits they have done are as follows: 1. Those who make lonely donations without en- couraging their friends will be born rich in fu- ture lives, but won't have many friends. They will have to look hard to find anyone to give them their friendship or even understand them; 2. Those who make donations themselves and encourage others to join them in making merit too will be born rich in future lifetimes and will have plenty of friends; 3. Those who don't make donations, but they encourage their friends to make donations will have plenty of rich friends, but they will be poor themselves. If any of your friends are in need, you will be able to tell them how to solve their problems instantly — but if you are in need you can do nothing to help your- self; 4. Those who don't make donations and don't encourage others to make donations either have a begging bowl waiting for them in their next life. They will have no friends either. D.3.1.2 Long life: Long life versus short life Some people are long-lived because in previous lives they avoided killing or harming animals. Long life is useful because it allows one plenty of time to perform good deeds. D.3.1.3 Illness: Freedom from illness versus sickliness Some people are always in good health. They seem invulnerable to disease and hardly even know their doctor. Again good health is the re- sult of having not been cruel to animals in previ- ous lifetimes. D.3.1.4 Complexion: Radiant versus dull complexion Some people never seem to lose their temper. They seem to be happy the whole of the time. Such people have a radiant complexion. By con- trast, those who are moody and whose faces are always in a frown will have a dull and rough com- plexion like that of a frog, however many lifetimes they are born. Thus if you know yourself to be moody by nature, then try to improve your char- acter as soon as you can — try doing the chant- ing and meditation before you go to bed each day. If you are angry with anybody in particulac, try to find a way to forgive them and spread loving- 84 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129186
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kindness towards them. If you are angry with anybody, don't let the anger last overnight. It's bad enough to be angry all day — don't let it last to the next morning. D.3.1.5 Powers Powerful versus powerless Some people are born to rule. Wherever they go others treat them with the utmost respect because in the past they have always been quick to ex- press their congratulations [mudita] whenever they have seen anyone else achieving success andgiven them their support. As for those who are born powerless and cowering, the real reason for this is because of their jealous habits in previ- ous lifetimes. Even if they are born king, they will be king of a mere vassal state or if they are born queen, they will be no more than a secondary consort. If you have the luck to receive a gift it will be second hand! D.3.1.6 Riches: Rich versus poor Some are born with a silver spoon in their mouth. Some are born into a wealthy family. Others fami- lies are poor but start to prosper as soon as they are conceived so that by the time they are born, their family is already rich. Others' families are poor but they start to prosper as soon as the baby is born. Such occurrences can only happen to someone who has been generous in his previous lifetimes. Whatever one chooses to do, it will make one rich. By contrast, if one has lived by robbery in previous lifetimes then this lifetime, they will have a begging bowl waiting for them. D.3.1.7 Social Standing: High a low social standing Some people are born with high social standing — such as being born king or a member of the royal family or as member of a house of high standing. By contrast, some are born a beggar's son. They are on the lowest rung of the social lad- der. The Lord Buddha taught that those who are humble and respectful of the virtuous will be born in a family of high social standing. If in this life- time you pay respect of high virtue and listen to their teachings, you will be born in a family of high social standing next lifetime and others will have the chance to pay respect to you. The rea- son why some people are born with low social standing is that they have lacked humility and reverence in their dealings with the virtuous in their previous lifetimes and have been stubborn and unyielding instead. D.3.1.8 Intelligence: Intelligent v.s ignorant Some people are born clever. As soon as they have the chance to study, all it takes is a single lesson and they are able to stand up and teach in the teacher's place. For others, the teacher teaches them the same thing two or three times and still they can make no sense of it. They have to rely on their friends to explain it to them outside les- son time. Even after so much trouble, they have only a superficial grasp of what they have learned. They will have to read through the lesson another ten times if they are to understand it as well as their peers. D.4 Level of Society This is the next level at which merit takes its effect. The result of having done only good deeds all our life together with the good deeds or merit accumu- lated over course of a long time will certainly bring peace, happiness, harmony, justice, progress and prosperity to themselves and the people around them. This happens especially as the result of the collective merit accrued by the majority of people in society. Merit takes its effect instantly at the level of the mind (if we are observant enough to notice it), however the time the effects take to filter suc- cessively though to the levels of personality, life- style and society take proportionally longer. CONSIDERATIONS El. Speed of Merit Taking Effect All we have talked about are basically the princi- pal forces. In fact, as with the dynamics of the karma which we studied in the previous lesson, all are to some extent modified by supplementary factors or concomitants, especially with reference to the speed with which they give their fruits. The degree to which meritorious deeds will give their benefits in our lifestyle depends on four factors which wecall the Four Accomplishments or Catalysts Isama- pattii. Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 85 EFTA01129187
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The Accomplishments are the factors favourable to the ripening of good karma just like catalysts which facilitate a chemical reaction— there are four of these in all: 1. Catalytic Circumstances Igatisampatti] and means that you are born in favourable circum- stances or amenable surroundings in terms of a place to live, a birthplace or a neighbourhood which will affect us for the better. To give an ex- ample suppose you are born as someone who is not particularly clever, but fortunately for you, you are born amidst catalytic circumstances — born in a prospering community with a good standard of education available to everyone. Thus with the application of a little effort in your studies, you can make up for your lack of innate cleverness with cleverness learned from your surroundings — the clear result of the catalytic circumstances.Those in possession of such circumstancses make it easier for themselves to further their good deeds during their life — and this is one way by which merit is self-catalytic. 2. Catalytic Gift of Wellbeing [upadhisampattil These refer to the characteristics of one's physi- cal and personal makeup that facilitate the aris- ing of good karma. Examples of such "gifts" might be a golden voice which makes everybody want to listen to what you have to say (no mat- ter whether it be good or bad!), a good singing voice (that sounds good even if you cry!), a beau- tiful or handsome physique (which can make you Miss Universe without having to do any- thing more than be born and grow up!) Some- one who is gifted in this way, but who instead of sitting on his laurels, continues to do good deeds all his life will find that good deeds give their results instantly, before their very eyes. 3. Catalytic Timing [kalasampatti] To be at the right place at the right time in the same way that we talked about the era of a world cycle when people are born. In an era where people value virtue manifest themselves right from the time you are born. You will associate with the wise right from your childhood. You need never come under the influence of fools. Throughout your life, no matter whether you are generous, keep the Precepts, meditate or do chanting, you will hear only words of encouragement from the peo- ple around you, making it easy for us to excel at any of these practices. Thus the results of one's meritorious action will be much quicker to see. 4. Catalytic Discretion [payoyasampatti]. To be born with good discretion and more importantly, the moral fibre to keep to one's principles and apply one's discretion to one's lifestyle will fa- cilitate the ripening of good karma. This cata- lyst is centred on the ability to teach yourself to improve in all aspects will make you a born leader never having to wait for others to per- suade you or force you to do beneficial things. Besides being able to discriminate between right and wrong, good and bad you will be able to put your ethics into practice. Such a personal endowment will quicken the speed with which you see the fruits of your meritorious actions at the level of the lifestyle. In conclusion, performing merits will give the frui- tion of good deeds instantly at the level of the mind and the personality. There is no need to waitfor the afterlife for these things. However, at the level of the lifestyle, you may have to wait much longer if you have accrued only a small amount of merit in your past. However, for those who have a lot of merit in their past lives, they will see the fruition of merits very quickly in the present lifetime. Thus those who are still skeptical about whether doing good deeds will really bring benefits to us at the level of our lifestyle, should study the mechanism of catalysts and inhibitors to the fruition of good karma as outlined in this section. .E2. Why is care needed in the study of merit? Merit is difficult to understand because the effects of merit thatwe can see are the result of com- pounded causes. Some of the good luck or good coincidences that we see come from the merit we have stored up for ourselves from long ago. Some of the good luck will come from the acts of merit which we have done recently and which remain in mind. Thus we need to have an understanding of 86 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129188
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merit otherwise, looking at the outcomes we might come to the misunderstood conclusion that good deeds don't give rise to merit and might give up too easily. The other aspect is to understand cor- rectly how to do the sort of good deeds that accrue merit otherwise, again, we might come to the con- clusion that our efforts to do good deeds have noth- ing but a disastrous effect on our future. Some people have such a strong conviction in merit that they think that merit and demerit is the only valuable way of evaluating actions in the world. However, such a narrow view can lead to some shortcomings of understanding. To take merit seriously, can inspire you to do good deeds, avoid evil and purify the mind. However, as one of the main characteristics of merit is that it accrues ex- clusively to the doer of a good deed, it tends to make Buddhists disinterested in what the people around them are doing. They may become interested only in their own personal destiny without thinking to try and upgrade the state of society or show con- cern for the destinies of those around them. Thus, the benefit of understanding merit is to make the best of our present to ensure a brightfiture. E3. Overcoming shyness to accrue Merit It is obvious from the examination of our present circumstances that we are living in a time when the circumstances of society are not very catalytic anymore. Because of the difficulty in discerning the fruits of meritorious action, the majority of people in the world today: 1. don't know the importance of merit; 2. know the importance of merit but don't know how to go about accruing it; 3. know how to accrue merit, but because they have not made merit making an implicit part of their lives, they are not particularly motivated to ac- cumulate merit. Some people want to do meritorious deeds, but are too shy. Some people know that it is good to bow down in respect to one's parents, but because they didn't make bowing to their parents part of their everyday life since they were children, by the time they are old enough to realize they are too shy to start something new. The important thing to overcome the shyness we might feel in accruing the merit in our lives is to make it a part of our daily routine so that we don't lose touch with merit or become unfamiliar. In this respect there are three important pieces of advice for the practitioner coined as mottos for those at- tending Wat Phra Dhammakaya: 1. Any morning wizen you have not given alms, you shouldn't allow yourself to take breakfast: You should get up in time to give alms to the monks on their almsround at dawn every day. If there is no monk on almsround you can always col- lect up small donations on a daily basis in a piggy-bank and offer them at the temple the next time you go. If you can manage to achieve this, you will avoid poverty in the long-term. Even if you are not particulary well off in the present lifetime, you can be assured that if you give alms every day, eventually you will put an end to the hardship of financial insecurity. 2. Any day when you don't intend to keep the Pre- cepts you shouldn't dare to leave the house: Once you have taken the precepts, you should revise the intention to keep them every day for the Five Precepts. At the very least you will always be within the protection of the Five Precepts — like an armour of morality. This merit is the second major investment we have to make in our life to ensure our enduring wellbeing. 3. Any evening when you haven't done your chant- ing and meditation, don't dare to go to bed: If you can manage to do your chanting and medi- tation every day, no matter how tired you are, you will be like the warrior who is ever ready for battle, with his sword already sharpened by his side. If you start today and train yourself in all three of these ways, you will be like a soldier ready for bat- tle with strength, a supply of provisions, a suit of armour and a weapon already sharp and ready for battle. However many times you go to war, you will be victorious every time. If you start living a life- style by which you accrue merit today, you will start Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 87 EFTA01129189
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to get the benefits today. There's no need to wait for next lifetime before starting your good deeds be- cause whether you will have the chance to do good deeds or not in your next life is dictated by the amount of good deeds you do in this lifetime. Thus start doing good deeds today, this very hour, at this very second. In addition to the merit you cultivate as a matter of course in your everyday life, you should look for opportunities to increase your store of merit on special occasions such as offering sanghadana (of- fering a meal to the monastic community), go for a longer meditation retreat, ordain temporarily for the course of the rainy season. Don't go thinking that you already have plenty of merit stored up from your past. You may be wrong. If you really had a lot of merit in your past, you would be able to sit comfortably for the whole of the hour long medita- tion session. If you still feel uncomfortable when you meditate or feel that you have to change pos- ture, that is the sign that you still have room for improvement in the merit you have stored up for yourself. You need to use the precious life of yours to rectify your faults and weaknesses — and the best way to do this is to do as many good deeds as you can. Otherwise the hunger of the mind will go on unabated F. ILLUSTRA1 EX1N1I'LLS Fl. Metaphor: Merit in the Past - Pedigree The nature of the differences is not the same as the pot-bound bonsai of the previous Blessing. It is not caused by the environment— the difference lies within the person himself —it is a personal attribute which differs in strength from one person to an- other. Compare a wild strawberry with a domestic breed of strawberry. You can water and fertilize a wild strawberry all you like, but in the end it will only produce a lot of leaves and a few tiny bitter fruits. By contrast, a domestic strain, even if ne- glected will produce numerous and succulent fruits. The difference is factor which belongs to the plant itself. With plants it is the pedigree, but with peo- ple it is the residue of the behaviours they have built up for themselves in the past — not a reputation because that needs a third party to remember it — it is something they build up inside them whether they have witnesses for their behaviour or not. F2. Metaphor: Merit - Food for the Mind All dynamic things in the world have fuel on which they feed. Fire burns on brushwood. A tree needs food, but the food that nourishes it is sucked up through the roots. The body bums on physical food. To get the food we need for our body we must find ourselves a job or a career. A light bulb bums on electric current. Sometimes the energy is stored up in the object itself at a previous time (like the bulb of a daffodil or a car battery), sometimes the en- ergy is used as it is obtained. All of these things must be provided with the fuel they need or else one day if the energy they have stored is exhausted, they will become useless or even die. All of these objects have their own food or fuel to nourish them, but as meditators, the object we are most interested in is the mind. The mind too, must have a food which can fuel its efficient activity, but what could possibly function as a sort of energy which the mind could store or use? Indeed, the personal residue we are talking about has the special quality of being like food which nourishes the mind—so that the mind can, to itsfull potential attract good opportunities and things on all four levels of success mentioned above. If mind is well fed it has repurcussions for all the other lev- els too — sooner or later. F3. Er. Ski Jataka(J.284) The bodhisattva was once an ascetic and had an elephant trainer as a patron. A stick-gatherer, sleeping at night in the hermitage, heard two roosting cocks abusing each other. In the course of the quarrel, one cock boasted that whoever ate his flesh would be king, his skin commander in chief or chief queen and his bones, royal treas- urer or king's chaplain. The man killed the cock and his wife cooked it, then taking it with them, they went to the river to bathe. They left the meat and rice on the bank, but as they bathed, the pot holding the food was blown into the river. It 88 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129190
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floated downstream where it was picked up by the elephant-trainer. The bodhisattva saw every- thing with his divine-eye and visited the trainer at meal-time. There he was offered the meat and divided it, giving the flesh to the trainer, the skin to his wife and keeping the bones to himself. Three days later, the city was beseiged by en- emies. The king asked the trainer to don royal robes and mount the elephant, while he himself fought in the ranks. There the king was killed by an arrow and the trainer, having won the battle, was made king, his wife being queen and the as- cetic his chaplain. The story was told in reference to a brahmin who tried to steal Anithapioclika's good fortune [sing. He perceived that the good fortune was embodied in a white cock for which he begged. Anithapirmlilca gave it to him, but the good fortune left the cock and settled in a jewel. He asked for that also, but the good for- tune went into a club. The club was also asked for, and Anathapioilika giving it, asked the brahmin to take it and be gone. However, the good fortune now settled on Anathapirmlika's wife. The brahmin thereby admitted defeat and confessed his intentions to Anithapirmlika who told the story to the Buddha. Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 89 EFTA01129191
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Blessing Six: Setting oneself'up properly in life A. INTRODMA ION A1. Place of Blessing Six in the order of things This sixth blessing is the last of the second group- ing of blessings concerned with "turning towards virtue". It builds upon what has gone before with the "nurture" of Blessing Four and the "nature" of Blessing Five —bringing spiritual development to a point where the third grouping "making oneself useful" can start to become meaningful. AZ Objectives of the Sixth Blessing Studying this Blessing can be considered to have fulfilled its true purpose if after reading it, the reader feels: 1. inspired to stand on their own two feet: that is, to promise themselves that this lifetime they will never again lower themselves to relying on any- one else as their refuge — no longer using oth- ers as crutches for their own weaknesses. The people of old used to say 'Even a bird builds its own nest — even a mouse digs its own hole — so who is a man not to stand on his own two feet? It is not fitting always to be leaning on oth- ers, borrowing from them or living in someone else's house. Otherwise one is no better than a sparrow living in the rafters of someone else's house. If you are the sort of person who is not ashamed of being dependent but who is on the other hand proud that there are always others who wants to help them, it will probably be a long time before you realize the reality of the world. It's no problem if you happen to live in your big sister's house, but what happens if one day her husband has a disagreement with you and wants you out of the house? You will find it hard to speak up in your own defense. Even if you have a disagreement with their children or grandchildren or friends, you would never dare to say anything to contradict them because you depend on their parents or grandparents for the roof over our head. You end up being someone who will not even dare to stand up for yourself — therefore, if at all possible, try to avoid de- pending on others — try to be self-sufficient. No matter whether you are male or female, you have to try to be independent. If you are put in the position where you are abused as a dependent, you have no choice but to put up with it. When you have put up with it until such abuse becomes engrained in your mind, you can no longer think of anything meritorious any more. All you can think of is getting your revenge. Better then, to build up your own standard of living by becom- ing self-sufficient in your earnings. 2. inspired never to provaricate about accruing merit henceforth. If after studying this Blessing the reader gains any- thing more in addition to these two advantages, it can be considered as a profit. For anyone to under- stand about the importance of being your own ref- Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 91 EFTA01129193
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uge and to see the value of accruing merit, you need a foundation of experience, and that foundation is specifically one's aim in life. A3. Definition: Setting oneself up properly in life Setting yourself up in the proper way refers to set- ting up both of the inseparable parts of our being — setting up our body and setting up our mind. As the mind governs the setting up of the body, to set ourselves up in life means setting up our mind cor- rectly. Setting up yourself means setting up your mind. If your mind can be properly set up, then the body will follow suit. For example if your mind is overcome with laziness, the body will be overcome by laziness too, lying around in a post-prandial sleaze. If the mind has a clear idea about what it is aiming for in spiritual development, then the body will comply with the mind's ambitions. Thus to set yourself up properly in life, you must set up your mind properly, and that means specifically making up your mind to pursue a pathway of self-perfec- tion. A4. Aim in life helps us set priorities, overcome obstacles Did you ever feel that you would like to achieve more from life but you never seem to have to the time — or you never seem to get round to doing them? Sometimes you have so many great plans in mind, but when you come round to doing them, there is always something else to help others with. There is always something else more urgent or seemingly more important? Do you find yourself exhausted at the end of the day with no strength left to do your meditation? All of us know that meditation makes a significant difference to the quality of our minds, but even though we know it, it is sometimes difficult to find the time to meditate each day. Part of the reason for this is that our priorities and aims in life are not clear. Sometimes there are urgent things in life which are urgent but not im- portant, like a ringing telephone or interruptions and they can upset the whole pace of our lives. They can be the things that make us unable to organize our time as we would like to. Sometimes these in- terruptions are really unavoidable, but usually, it is because we give them too much importance and put them too high on our list of priorities that they rob us of our time — the reason in turn, why we are unable to set our priorities as we mean to, is because we lack a clear perspective of our own pri- orities. With meditation, we are dealing with a prac- tice and a tradition, which has lifelong conse- quences for us. Therefore, for the practice of medi- tation and for the setting of complimentary priori- ties in life, we cannot afford to overlook a clear per- spective of our own lives. We call such an overview our 'aim in life'. If as meditators, we have a dear aim in life, as intelligent human beings, we will be able to use our wisdom to lead our own lives ac- cording to our principles. If we have no principles and no direction, more often than not, instead of leading our lives, our lives tend to lead us! A.5. Everyone has an aim in life Life seems to vary in its perceived value fromperson to person. Some people have had the ambition since primary school to become a millionaire. Some have always wanted to become primeminister. Some want to be a soccer champion. Aim in life seems to be different for different people, however, if you look at the deeper nature of all people, ultimately all people aim improve themselves. Some people want to improve themselves to the utmost by puri- fying their mind within the space of their lifetime to a point where they can enter upon Nirvana. Oth- ers might not be in so much of a hurry — but it doesn't mean that their spiritual path will not pass the same way some day. A6. Virtues for creating purpose in everyday life Anyone who wishes to create and maintain focus and purpose in their life needs to train themselves in the following five virtues called 'core virtues' Isaradhamma] by the Lord Buddha: 2. Faith or Confidence IsaddhaI: This means be- lieving in the appropriate things. It means train- ing yourself to be reasonable — not to be gulli- ble. The difference between being faithful and being gullible is that the latter has no reason for their confidence. Thus wisdom is always an im- 92 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129194
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portant component of faith. From the Buddhist point of view, the basis of faith is: 1. the existence of the Buddha 2. the working of the Law of Karma — that do- ing good deeds really gives rise to good re- sults (with the proviso of doing those good deeds properly, sufficiently and not in excess) 3. that the result of one's good or bad karma will follow one until it gives its retribution. 2. The Precepts [silo]: You must keep the minimum of Five Precepts (for more explanation see Blessing Nine). 3. Having heard much IbahusutaJ: be specific, this means being diligent in the acquisition of knowl- edge both spiritual and worldly by listening to many teachings. 4. Being a person of self-sacrifice icago]: This means being able to sacrifice and let go both of material possessions (given to others) and also to let go of our grudges and bad temper by for- giving others 5. Training Oneself in Meditation IsamadhiJ: We need to train ourselves in meditation if we are to have any chance of attaining wisdom. Wisdom is the most essential element in having a well- planned aim in life and being able to keep our- selves to it. If the mind is trained in meditation it will have the determination to remain un- scathed in the face of temptations to "lower our sights" and settle for less ambitious aims in life. B. I HMI; LEVELS OF AIM IN LIFE 1. Exclusively Materialistic Aim In Life: Every- body comes into the world with nothing, but everyone has the same basic needs for survival whether it be the food on their plates, the clothes on their backs, the roof over their head or the medicine they need to keep them healthy in times of illness. If any one of these things are lacking from people's lives, they cannot survive. Man can only go for a single day without water. He can only go for seven days without food. Thus it is only natural that the very least that people should aim for in their lives is to fulfill these ba- sic physical needs. If their aim in life is any lower that this they cannot survive. Of course some people want more that this. Some people are not satisfied with the basics of survival. They want to be millionaires, they want luxury, they want the freedom in life to choose what they buy. In fact however much you want, whether it is just to fulfill their physical needs or to satisfy their physical wants, their aim in life is only quite short term. It is based on immediate rewards. They think of no further requirement of life beyond death. In their youth they seek experience, in their middle age they amass wealth. Towards the end of their lives they try to find an heir for their wealth. Thus we call such aims in life "earthly" because they extend no further than this world and this existence. Those who entertain only such an aim in life will usually (but not always — some people cut corners) want to earn their liv- ing in an honest way, by earning, saving, using their earnings in a responsible way and entrust- ing honest people to look after common wealth. 2. Spiritual/Material Aim In Life: At the same time in the world, there are those who recognize that they must fulfill the physical needs of the body, but their aim in life runs deeper than that. They recognize that they need to earn their living, but earning that living is only a means to an end. They recognize that there exists not only a physi- cal hunger, but the hunger of the spirit or the mind too. They realize that if the mind is left hungry it will tempt them to do things they don't want them to do. They need to find time in their lives to reach for a higher spiritual dimension. 3. Exclusively Spiritual Aim In Life: Last of all in the world there are those who realize the hun- ger of the body and the mind — the body for physical needs and the mind in its hunger for a higher spiritual dimension to life. For such a group of people the sensitivity towards the hun- ger in the mind is so great that they find that they have the vocation to deal with source of the hunger at its root. So great is the intensity of their calling that they will see the need to devote them- selves full time to the pursuit of spirituality. To purify themselves completely so that hunger may be completely extinguished. They have the Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 93 EFTA01129195
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time to devote to spiritual study without having to compromise their time in order to earn a liv- ing. They will spend their time learning the spir- itual way and teaching it to the best of their abil- ity so intensively that the life of the householder and the family no longer holds any attraction for them. We call such an aim in life ultimate be- cause is seeks to come to an end of all further suffering and to help others to do the same. Bl. Exclusively Materialistic Setting yourself up in a proper way for those with an exdu- sively materialistic aim in life consists of two components: 1. avoiding evil 2. standing on your own two feet The Buddha's short teaching of the way to set your- self up in the proper way is probably too short for the reader to know how to practice it so we have to expand a little further on the subject matter B1.1 Avoiding Evil Avoiding evil means specifically to avoid the six 'roads to ruin' rapayamuklictj. We must avoid them in or- der to avoid falling into any of the unfortunate realms in future existences. 'Ruin' Iapayal here means 'low- down', 'dirty', 'decaying' and 'lacking prosperity. The word 'road' [mukha] means 'path', 'front' or 'face'. There are six different types of 'roads to ruin': 1. Drinking alcohol or taking intoxicating drugs: like opium or heroin; 2. Nightlife: such as frequenting brothels; 3. Frequenting shows: that have content that is romantic or frivolous; 4. Gambling: and lotteries 5. Associating with evil companions 6. Being too lazy to work We will not go into further detail of these'roads to ruin' here. In some places only four 'roads to ruin' are referred to instead of six as mentioned already in Blessing One (§E.3) as the sort of thing that fools like to persuade you to do. B1.2 Standing on you own two feet In the time of the Buddha, there was someone who asked the way to set himself up in life. The four practices he taught are sometimes called the four chambers of the millionaire's heart. They are the prerequisite virtues for accruing benefit in the present life (in Pali the ditthadhammikattha- payojana). For revision take a look back at Bless- ing Two (§C4.1). In conclusion, anyone who is dili- gent in acquisition of wealth, in stewardship of their earnings, who associates only with good friends and who uses their earnings to support themselves in a modest way will before long achieve riches. All of this hard work will only be of benefit to us in the present lifetime however. If you also want ben- efits in future lifetime, you need to know how to accrue merit too. B2. Material/Spirituablim Setting yourself up in a proper way for those with a spiritual/material aim in life consists of three com- ponents: 1. avoiding evil 2. standing on your own two feet 3. cultivating virtuous speech and action Avoiding evil and standing on your own two feet are the same as for those with the exclusively ma- terialistic aim in life. However, on this level we have the addition of virtuous speech and action. This means immersing our mind fully in meritorious speech and action. The way this is achieved is to practice the Ten or the Three Major Ways to Accrue Merit Ipufifialariyavatthu] already discussed in Blessing Five (§C2). The guiding principles for ac- cruing merit are the prerequisite virtues to accru- ing benefit in future lives Isampayikattha- payojanct]. For revision take a look back at Bless- ing Two (§C4.2) and Blessing Four (§B4.6). B2.1 Warnings about prevarication On the subject of setting oneself up in life, there are several common misconceptions which you ought to avoid: 1. Don't wait until you are old before getting spir- itual: You should devote yourself to spiritual practice starting from the time when you are still young and healthy. In fact even to start temple- going from the time you are twenty is still too late. If you start temple-going from the age of 94 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129196
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five or six, like RAhula in the time of the Bud- dha, it is your advantage. You should start study- ing the spiritual side of yourself early in life so that you don't make grave moral errors. How many of us spend many years drinking alcohol and damaging our minds before we realize what we are doing to ourselves? You can bypass the problem completely if you attend the temple from your youth. 2. Don't prevaricate about setting yourself up in life: You should work hard to make yourself self- sufficient in life at the earliest possible opportu- nity — anyone who is still a parasite living in someone else's house should be quick to make yourself independent. 3. Don't prevaricate about paying off your debts: Don't let your debts be something you carry with you to your next life! The interest on loans that span into the afterlife are too high to be worth risking slow repayment. Thus pay off your debts and make sure that you don't put yourself in debt any more. You should build up your own finan- cial reserves before making an investment, not rely on borrowing from others or from the bank. If you die before you have paid back your loan, next lifetime you will have that debt hanging round your neck like a dead albatross. Suppose you borrow a dollar but die before you can pay it back — supposing you are an angel for a thou- sand years — just think what the compound in- terest will add up to during that time! You might never manage to pay it back. 4. Don't prevaricate about improving on your bad habits: If you know anything about yourself is a bad habit, give up doing it immediately. Check your own behaviour as a regular part of your practice and improve on yourself instead of wast- ing time finding fault with others. 5. Be careful of bad deeds in the guise of good ones: When you have done a good deed, don't go wish- ing for things that are irresponsible. B3. Exclusively spiritual Even the Bodhisattva himself needed an aim in life when pursuing perfections in preparation for Bud- dhahood. Thus it comes as no surprise that on the exclusively spiritual level of aim in life, it is still important to have an aim in life, in order to waste no time in pursuing the goal of purifying the mind to a point where it can enter upon Nirvana. On this level, even material convenience is sacrificed in or- der fully to cultivate spiritual development. B3.1 Human Realm as the crossroads of existence The clearer one's aim in life, the more clearly one will understand the preciousness of human life — and that we cannot afford to waste a moment. Even if you look around your house, of which you pride yourself as being the owner, if you count the number of fleas, mosquitos, ants and mice, you will realize that you are in the minority — even though it's your house! This is intended to give you an ink- ling of how rare it is to be born human and what a precious opportunity our human lifespan is in forg- ing our destiny. In our human company there are basically four sorts of pathway of human destiny forged during a lifespan (AXLES): 1. Out of the darkness into the darkness: Born with all the disadvantages of nature and nurture, they did what came naturally and made a worse mess out of their lives; 2. Out of the darkness into the light: In spite of ample disadvantages of nature and nurture, they struggled against hardship until being able to make some sort of success out of their lives; 3. Out of the light into the darkness: In spite of all the advantages of nature and nurture, they be- came complacent and made a mess out of their lives. 4. Out of the light into the light: Avoiding the trap of complacency, they built on the advantages of nature and nurture they brought into the world, storing up a yet brighter future for themselves. The human realm is like a crossroads where des- tiny can be transformed for the better or for the worse. For sure, transforming one's destiny for the better means going against the tide. Spiritual culti- vation is often hard in the beginning, but pays off in the long-term — something that may not be im- mediately obvious to someone who sees everything Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Lift 95 EFTA01129197
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in the short-term. Therefore a proper aim in life is vital for anyone navigating the human crossroads who wants to make a success in forging a brighter destiny. B3.2 Prerequisites for fulfilling the Highest Aim in Life In a Buddhist context, fulfilment of Highest Aim in Life, the fruition of all levels of cultivation is to purify the mind completely or to enter upon Nir- vana. In order to fulfil this goal six conditions must be fulfilled— without these six prerequisites, all our effort in setting an aim in life will be in vain. These six prerequisites are: 1. You have to have been born in an amenable loca- tion i.e. Blessing Four 2. You must have done good deeds until used to them i.e. Blessing Five 4 - 6. The Four Accomplishments already met as catalysts determining the speed with which merit can take its effect as described in Blessing Five These six factors go together as a set of conditions known as the Six Catalysts or Accomplishments: 1. Catalytic Circumstances Igatisanzapati] 2. Catalytic Timing Ikalasampattil 3. Catalytic Location Ipadesasampattil 4. Catalytic Family [kulasampatti] 5. Catalytic State of Well-being [upaclhisampatti] 6. Catalytic View [ditthisampata] If you find that you are hampered in setting your- self up in life in the way you would wish, perhaps you have to consolidate Blessing Four and Bless- ing Five to contribute sufficient Accomplishments to your spiritual quest to give you the 'escape ve- locity' you need to forge your destiny to the full! C. ILLUS1 HA LIVE EXAMPLES C.1 Metaphor: Boat must have a rudder If the ship that must struggle to make way in the ocean waves is to reach the far shore, its cap- tain must have a clear destination in mind and keep the ship firmly on course, not allowing the ship to drift — no less important is an aim in life to those wishing to achieve success and profit in their lives. C.2 Metaphor: The one-eyed sea turtle (S. v.455) The Lord Buddha taught that the birth of some- one as a human is as rare as the chance of a blind turtle in the ocean which surfaces for air once a century popping its head through the middle of the only flower garland which happens to be floating in the sea. The chance of a being which is a denizen of hell, an animal, a ghost or a de- mon attaining human birth is even slighter still.Therefore having obtained yourself a hu- man birth make sure you make the best of your life. C.3 Metaphor: Saving for the Future Just as a wise merchant must keep aside someof his money for investment in the future, the wise man must keep aside some of his time for the practices that will allow him to renew his merit for future lifetimes. Just as the wise farmer keeps aside some of his rice crop for next year's sow- ing, the wise man will take the opportunity while his old merit is still giving its fruit, to ac- crue new merit for use in future existences. C.4 Ex.: The Retribution of Kapila Bhikkhu DhA.iv.37ff. In the time of the Lord Buddha named Kassapa, there was a gang of five hundred thieves who were bringing misery to the whole of the king- dom. The householders, together with the po- lice and the army thus hunted down the gang and when the thieves saw that they could no longer defend themselves, they escaped into the forest. The vengeful householders did not give up chase and so the thieves went deeper and deeper into the forest until they came to a clear- ing in the heart of the forest. There they met a monk, and seeing the monk, they started to see the error of their ways. They were receptive to what the monk had to say, and the monk taught them that they must keep the Precepts even if it cost them their lives. In any case, if they were to be caught, no-one would spare their lives be- 96 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129198
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cause they had already murdered so many peo- ple. The thieves took the Five Precepts and didn't try to escape any more. They concentrated all their attention on keeping the Precepts pure. They would not hurt even a mosquito or a leech. Even if the soldiers were to catch up with them and attack them with swords and knives, they swore not to put up a fight. Before long, the soldiers discovered the thieves and attacked. The thieves kept their word and put up no resistance — they were so devoted to keeping their Precepts pure. All five hundred thieves were executed, but through the power of keeping the Precepts to the degree they would sacrifice their lives, their bad deeds didn't have the chance to catch up with them. They were born instantly as angels. The evil of their past did not disappear, however, but was waiting for the opportunity to give its retribution. When they were reborn from the celestial world into the human realm, the influence of the killing they had done in the past still affected them. All five hundred were born as fishermen in the same village. However, even though their livelihood was to kill fish, through the power of their good deeds in the past, they all still had faith in Buddhism. Even so, the fishermen con- tinued to collect demerit as a result of their ha- bitual killing. One day a group of fishermen caught a giant, golden-coloured fish — as big as a boat. No-one had ever seen such a fish in their lives. They cap- tured the fish and took it to offer to King Pasenadi of Kosala — who in turn took the fish to the Buddha. As soon as the fish opened its mouth, a foul smell spread all around the Jetavana monastery. The king then asked the Buddha why such a beautiful fish should have such a foul smell. The Enlightened One then revealed that in one of his past existences, the fish had been a learned bhikkhu named Kapila during the time of Kassapa Buddha. Because of his deep knowl- edge of the Dhamma, he had gained much fame and honour. He also became very conceited and looked down upon the other bhikkhus. When the other bhikkhus pointed out to him what was proper or not proper, he invariably retorted, 'How much do you know?' implying that he knew much more than those bhikkhus. In the course of time, most of the bhikkhus avoided him. On one occasion,the bhikkhus did not join him when he was reciting the Fundamental Precepts for the bhikkhus (i.e., the Patimokkha). Observ- ing that the bhikkhus remained silent, Kapila said, 'There is no such thing as Sutta, Abhidhamma or Vinaya. It makes no difference whether you listen to the Pitimokkha or not' and left the congregation. He had taught the Dhamma to others in a way that was biased in the monk's self interest — in a way that made his teaching deviate from the truth. His misrep- resentation of the Dhamma was thus perpetu- ated amongst his followers. There were many others including his teacher and arahants who had warned that monk of the danger of his misrepresentation of the Dhamma — however he would not listen. He insulted them in return for their advice. As a result he developed False View and when he passed away, these False Views dragged him down into the Unfortunate Realms for a long time. Only then could he be born as a fish. The Precepts of a monk gave their fruit as the beautiful golden appearance of the fish but the retribution from insulting arahants and his teacher gave him his stinking mouth. Hearing the previous karma of the fish, the five-hundred fishermen considered all the evil deeds they had done as a result of their livelihood since their youth. They realized that their time in hell would certainly be no less than the fate of the fish they had caught — so they decided collectively all to become monks and to devote themselves to Dhamma practice. From the power of having sacrificed their lives for their Precepts in a previous existence — i.e. having set themselves up properly in life — be- fore long they could all become arahants and were no longer subject to the retribution of the evil karma of their past. Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 97 EFTA01129199
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C.5 Ex. Akkosaka Bharadvaja Vatthu DhA.iv.16111. In the time of the Buddha there was a Brahmin couple. The husband called Bharadavitja was very strict in his Brahmin observances. He had never shown any interest in Buddhism. By con- trast, his wife was a person with no further doubt in Buddhism because she had heard one of the teaching of the Buddha and had become enlightened as a stream-enterer as the result. One day the husband wanted to hold a feast for all the most high standing Brahmins — wor- shipped as 'arahants' in their religion. Thus the husband and wife started their elaborate prepa- rations for the feast, but when it came close to the 'big day', because it was the habit of the wife always to exclaim 'Buddhor whenever some- thing surprised her, her husband appealed to her on the day of the feast not to mention anything about Buddhism or to say anything in praise of the Triple Gem. The wife said, "My mind is uni- fied with the Dhamma, therefore whatever I say will also be Dhamma — there is nothing you can do to stop my mind from being that way!" "And what about if I take a sword and cut you into small pieces — will that help you to edu- cate your mind?" "Even if you were to make mincemeat of me," said the wife, "I could not help myself from hav- ing the Dhamma as my refuge!" The husband didn't know what more to say — so they got on with the work of providing the feast. Everything went well until the wife slipped over on a pile of spilled rice. She ex- claimed, "Namo tassabhagavato arahato samma sambuddh-assa!" Everyone present heard the wife's exclama- tion. The assembled Brahmins were angered by what they heard. When they had received the invitation, they understood that the wife had re- spect for them. Now they had found out that she respected not them but the Buddha. They were specially angry because they were opposed to everything the Buddha did. Those who had fin- ished their meal immediately stood up and shouted insults at the couple. Those who had not finished eating overturned every plate of food on the table. They stamped their feet and walked out on the couple. The husband was so angry he didn't know what to say. He couldn't do anything to punish his wife — so he thought to take out his anger on his wife's teacher — the Buddha himself. He buckled on his sword and turned in the direc- tion of Jetavana monastery with the intention to put an end to the Buddha and his teachings. The husband walked straight up to the Buddha with- out paying respect and in his anger shouted the rhetorical question at the Buddha, "Do you know what a man has to kill in order to get a good night's sleep...?" The Brahmin thought that putting an end to the Buddha was the only way he could save face and sleep soundly that night. Without waiting for an answer, the Brahmin continued, "... and what a man has to kill to cure his sorrow? ...". And still without waiting for an answer, the Brahmin asked the Buddha, ". . . and so what form of killing would you support?" The Buddha knew what was on the mind of the Brahmin and coolly answered the first ques- tion with the words, "A man must kill his anger in order to get a good night's sleep. If you don't kill your anger, you will do things that you re- gret later, being put in prison or punished — but if you kill your anger, you don't need to undergo the sorrowful consequences of your angry deeds. The Noble Ones praise the killing of an- ger — whose root is poison and whose crown is sweet." When the Buddha said that the root of anger is poisonous, he meant that anger has suffering as its result. When he said that the crown is sweet, he meant that we get a strange, twisted satisfaction out of expressing our anger to oth- ers or losing our temper. After hearing only these few words, Bhirradavitja was impressed. He was impressed that the Buddha was not angry in response to his anger. He had prepared his sword to chop the Buddha to pieces at the first unwelcome 98 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01129200
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word, but instead of hearing anything to irritate him further, the Brahmin had been impressed by every one of the Buddha's reasoning. He threw away his sword and invited the Buddha to teach him further. In the end, he was moti- vated to practise the Dhamma further and ended up ordaining as a monk. Killing your anger is one way of setting your- self up in life. To ordain as the result of a teach- ing is to set yourself up in faith, in the Precepts, in Wisdom or in Meditation. It was in this in- tense way that Bhirradavaja set himself up in life, and before long could practice until attain- ing arahantship Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 99 EFTA01129201
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